'Patriarchy' refers to a system in which all males (including you) are taught to view women as resources out of which they can extract resources and act upon such education through varying degrees of violence, coercion, and manipulation against women. No need to eschew the nuance of feminist theory for the sake of the sociopaths that are MRAs (and by sociopaths I mean men who crash survivors speakouts to get up and gaslight/mansplain to every women in the room, which is a thing I watched happen)
how can you object that i’m ignoring nuance when your proposed definition is explicitly worded to allow zero nuance