mindofamaddock-deactivated20150 asked:

And remember how when I came out as genderqueer, and pansexual/bisexual, how many people were there assuming someone 'made me' that way? I had one guy I had had sex with who was like, "If enough men fuck you, you won't feel like you need women anymore." SO WHICH IS IT? Does abuse make people a) hypersexual b)hyposexual c)lesbian d)bisexual e)pansexual f)asexual g)heterosexual h)non-binary i)binary... OH WAIT ITS ALMOST LIKE ABUSE IN CHILDHOOD DOES NOT -CAUSE- THESE THINGS AND WE'RE INDIVIDUALS.

kecrambles answered:

IMAGINE THAT!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!1

the incredibly creepy subtext here is

women’s sex drives are, ultimately, defined wholly and exclusively by the cocks they’ve had in them