i am kinda done being nice and polite about this

y'all are merrily spreading a vicious accusation and even piling your own new crap on top of it, and an increasing number of people are freely admitting they didn’t even read anything about the original situation!

you are creating an environment where it is impossible to clear your name after an abuse allegation, even if you have a hard counter to all of it. no one will read your response. no one will even read the complaint! and claiming innocence is just the sort of thing a guilty person would do.

that is wildly irresponsible and irrational. that is cruel. that is evil.

and i will not abide it.

PS: i hope you realize, the harder you push for this brave new world where the first person to yell “abuse” controls the truth, the easier it’ll be for one of your exes to do this to you. i sure hope all of your breakups were amicable.