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It isn't fair, but it's kind of like the people sending mean asks to PK and their followers. They abuse to punish abuse. The logic feels the same. If you don't think it's a good thing to do, don't do it, you know? Believe me, my family and I have been attacked by lies like this before, so I know how it eats you. But you have to accept what you can't change, mourn your old life and move on.. Rip off the band-aid sooner to make it easier, imo. Anyway, I hope things get better for you and PK soon.

i’m not seeking to abuse anyone; i’m genuinely dying to know what these people actually think mel’s sin was.  because nobody actually discusses it; they just pass on the summary, “pk is an abuser”.  or they link the callout, which i remain convinced few people have even read.  if anyone even hints at what she did wrong, it’s something she did in reaction to pengo’s callout — some behavior that’s only abusive if she was actually guilty of abuse in the first place.

i’m having a really hard time understanding how there can be a lot of people who are absolutely confident someone is abusive, without being to name a single abusive thing they’ve done.  that doesn’t rely on circular reasoning, anyway.

i’m not actively looking for trouble any more at least.  i have been barred from searching tumblr.  everyone i talked at today was either linked to me or in the notes on mel’s posts.  wow that’s a lot of people  :(

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