youreyoungerthanyourealize:

kecrambles:

lexyeevee:

youreyoungerthanyourealize:

kecrambles:

lexyeevee:

youreyoungerthanyourealize:

yeah aside from the huge internet audience watching, what PK did to Pengo is extremely similar to what one of my abusers did to me so if you read through all that and still think PurpleKecleon is OK you can fuck entirely off my blog tbh

i am sorry for your bad experience but for what it’s worth, “what PK did to Pengo” is basically have a stressful weekend and then break up: http://lexyeevee.tumblr.com/post/101249372217/pengosolvent-versus-the-truth-a-rebuttal

nice choice of blog theme. blog theme buddies

that really sucks and i am sorry to hear that but his post is about 95% bullshit and 5% mixed up facts without the right context; i ask that you please read the rebuttal if you have not because we tried to lay out *exactly* what happened and why i was not able to understand what problems he had at the time, as well as documenting instances where pengo explicitly fucked up the events and claimed i did stuff to him that he literally did to me (with log proof)

oh wow, an abuser saying their victim was making shit up???? this is completely original and unheard-of

what would you suggest she say instead if that’s actually the case? it does happen. sometimes, people say things that aren’t true, on the internet.

you’re basically saying “so you say you’re innocent? that’s just what someone guilty would say.” what room does that leave for someone who’s actually innocent?

i wrote a rebuttal that fills in logs and context the abuser had lost; that is the best i know how to do. please do read it if you are interested in truth, not just in who shouts “abuse” first.

ok so you’re admitting you have no interest in the truth, that you’d rather be willfully ignorant in the face of hard proof and complete logs

well, can’t say that i didn’t try

Here’s the thing: I could read through that massive document and cross-reference it with Pengo’s callout. Or I could just note that the post supposedly absolving you of emotional manipulation/abuse is a paragraphs-long guilt trip. And I could also point out that going through people’s blogs and digging up months-old posts about you is fairly creepy and invasive in and of itself. And I could also point to this post, and note that reblogging these posts instead of just messaging the posters opens us up to harassment by your fans! I’ve already gotten one nasty anon, and I’m sure I’ll get others once the US East Coast starts to wake up, so thanks for that.

But mostly: you give me the fucking creeps. And the last person who gave me the creeps this badly went by the screenname monetizeyourcat. If you’re not familiar with her, research her. Another person who gave me the creeps like that tried to murder his ex-girlfriend by trying to cut the brakeline to her car. When I ignore creepy vibes, bad things happen, either to me or to people around me.

So no, I don’t care about your personal Encyclopedia Dramatica. You’ve given me more than enough evidence that you’re bad news right here.

don’t worry the document is already super cross-referenced it’s very convenient

also please don’t confuse me with pk

i wrote the prelude to the rebuttal, and it is genuine; i was and am very frustrated and disappointed with tumblr’s handling of this.

i went namesearching of my own volition, because i don’t know what else to do about anons trying to gradually erode a potential fanbase one person at a time.

perhaps consider that pengo’s post involved digging up an old relationship a year and a half later and posting private details of it for the world to see. when pengo does these things spontaneously, you see him as a victim; when i search tumblr and reblog posts defensively, you see it as creepy and invasive? what?

note also that multiple posts seeking to spread his gossip have gotten orders of magnitude more than any of my reblogs of people here, despite pk’s audience, which btw is massively smaller on the side blog she’s been using to reblog. mostly there’s just been a handful of likes from close friends. sorry for your anon jerk, though. i am not pleased about that.

do you care if your own readers harass pk? did it occur to you that that could happen? what if they just quietly decided to hate her because you said so? is that okay? basically why is it okay for you to denounce someone publicly but not okay for me to reply publicly? because some people might be mean to you? well what do you think your original post was to us?

if there were another option btw i would love to use it, but there isn’t really. asks are some hot garbage with no record of what anyone said and no control over whether you answer privately or publicly (and if you do the latter, i never find out). if you want people to be able to reply to you without reblogging, set up disqus.

and hey if you want to avoid someone because of bad vibes then totally do it. i just want the rumormongering to stop