Anonymous asked:omfg what is this whole thing of 'if someone says X is an abuser, then X is totally 100% an abuser and fuck your evidence you abuse apologist piece of crap' LIKE I UNDERSTAND that people lying about being abused is pretty friggin' uncommon (I think) but uh BLINDLY SIDING WITH SOMEONE /JUST/ BECAUSE THEY SAID THEY WERE ABUSED despite the evidence to the contrary is pretty goddamn ridiculous and makes me wanna scream AND I AM SO SORRY YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS
