i just don’t understand this string of multiple people now who write some sick gossip, put it somewhere it’s basically guaranteed to get our attention, then freak out when we respond to it

what on earth did you expect

or rather, what on earth else are we supposed to do

it really sucks having potentially tens of strangers seeing you and judging you based on a tiny nonrepresentative slice of who you are, right? that must be the worst. what a horrible fate.