0-fool-xxii:

crotchcigar:

purplekecleon:

I’ve learned a lot in the past half year. I don’t think it would have been so easy to wake up and realize that I needed to curb the extreme ways I felt about people and their slip-ups had it not been for these past 6 months. 

I mean, it’s kind of hard to ever feel so black-and-white about people and their intentions after experiencing the agony of hundreds/thousands of strangers judging you over something that’s 1) wrong, and 2) none of their business, besides. (Yes, I also learned a very harsh lesson about assuming it was ever safe or a good idea to vent publicly about a personal matter. People make stupid mistakes. I am a person, and therefore it follows that I, too, make stupid and thoughtless and careless mistakes. I am always trying to make less of those. I try even harder to not make the same mistake twice.)

Anyway, it sucks when people make up stories about your intentions. It’s usually a good idea to refrain from judging others. This is something I have struggled with for a long time, myself, for various childhood reasons I am still unlearning. Experiencing it so thoroughly, feeling the frustration that comes with people not understanding where you’re coming from… well, it’s only served to remind me not to be a perpetrator in something like that, myself. I guess I’m thankful that I’m the type of person who can handle it - I would gladly take bullshit thrown my way if it means someone who can’t handle it doesn’t receive it.

I guess that’s all I can hope to gain from this — learning what not to do, who not to be like, in my quest to be more loving, patient, and compassionate — and less judgmental and quick-to-anger.

I guess this comic sums up some of the thoughts I’ve been having lately about this - though there’s only so much I can say with little pictures of Kecleon!

Anyway, with my birthday happening in a couple of hours, I’m hoping for a good 25th year on this planet. It’s been a pretty good 2015 so far anyway!

yep

purplekecleon is an abuser tho like

uhm

hey just curious, what abusive things has purplekecleon done? can you name like one concrete example so i have some idea

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