transasbellhant:

even if you didn't abuse Pengo (which is unlikely. people can be abusive no matter how nice and well intentioned they are)

whoa, whoa

“people can be abusive no matter how nice … they are”

this sounds like a terrifying definition of “abusive”. if being nice doesn’t ensure one’s not being abusive, what on earth does?

unless you want to water the word down so far that it just means “accidentally making someone else feel bad sometimes”.

your attitude is still absolutely fucking garbage and THAT was what a lot of people were basing their judgment off of. Not even the large post where Pengo tried to tear you down, but your fucking reaction to it. You apologized for all of the wrong reasons

well yes she didn’t apologize for the things she didn’t do. do you expect her to have… done otherwise?

and additionally you behaved VERY poorly and resorted to scare tactics.

someone sought legal advice when accused of criminal behavior. that’s way more scary than being accused of criminal fucking behavior, huh.

it’s interesting how tumblr keeps referring to this as “scare tactics”, as if to… scare others out of seeking legal advice in the future.

The fact that you tried to hard to deflect a “defamation” post from someone who was routinely abused in other interpersonal relationships says a lot about who you are as a person. Jeez.

yeah i mean why would anyone try so hard to deflect things that aren’t true?? weird.

sorry guys #i know i keep somehow bringing this shit up #but im tired of PK and their lackeys continually pulling all stops to silence a past abuse victim #complete with ableism

“lackey”, a dismissal tactic, freeing you from the burden of listening to anyone who disagrees with you

i don’t know how responding to someone’s posts after they’ve stopped talking is “silencing”? but it would be nice if he would refrain from posting accusatory falsehoods in the future, sure.

and what disagreement would be complete without accusing us of unqualified “ableism”. strangely i’ve yet to see a single explanation of how exactly this is the case; the word just sort of gets tossed around.