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toothmonsterr:

i honestly don’t understand how you people can be so set on calling an entire situation a whole bunch of lies when everything revolves around pengo feeling like he was being silenced, talked down to, and gaslighted (which you’re still doing, btw, it doesn’t stop being gaslighting when you’re not directly involved with them) & then you all going around doing the exact same thing he accused you of, except this time it’s in public.

Well, no, everything revolves around how Pengo wrote and spread a massive pack of falsehoods. He felt “silenced” because we wanted him to stop doing that, because it’s morally reprehensible. I don’t understand why you ignore what Pengo has done and use our reaction as your damning evidence against us.

I remind you, again, that gaslighting requires intentional deception. We have, to the best of our abilities, been telling the truth the entire time. If Pengo doesn’t like being reminded that he recalls things incorrectly, well, that’s unfortunate.

But I had to do this because of the people like you, who are dead-set on assuming from the outset that PK is in the wrong. You completely gloss over the atrocity Pengo has committed here, and finger PK for how she responded to it, pretending her actions came from nowhere. You are not the first, you are not the last, and I’m rather tired of it. It’s dishonest and petty.

it’s not like you’ve all collectively made a concentrated effort to defame him in response to all this or anything, like honestly this seems to be the only defense you have. “he’s lying, we swear” i feel like i’m in a fucking kindergarten of brick walls

Proving that someone else’s words are untrue is “defaming”?

But saying those untrue things in the first place, and saying “don’t support PK”, isn’t?

I feel you’re being extremely disingenuous here, and are choosing who to accuse or defend based on what you already think about them.