ok well an anon wanted a wingull, but i’m on my phone which is apparently really difficult to draw on, and also my ds is charging so i have no reference, so i hope it’s everything you dreamed of also why can’t i embed an image while answering an ask on mobile, dammit tumblr

ok well an anon wanted a wingull, but i’m on my phone which is apparently really difficult to draw on, and also my ds is charging so i have no reference, so i hope it’s everything you dreamed of

also why can’t i embed an image while answering an ask on mobile, dammit tumblr

rebexorcist asked:

How can we, the kitty fans who don't get to see them every day in real life, tell Twigs and Pearl apart (tags aside)? In some pics it looks like Twigs has stripes but I could never really tell.

well pearl is smaller and lighter, but i guess in a photo of only one of them that’s not much help

but pearl also has a marbled pattern, and twigs doesn’t; you can see there’s a black patch on her forehead in that last photo

alright i am done

i have done all i can do and my furor is distracting mel so

back to intermittent cat photos and clumsy drawings

thanks to everyone who sent nice asks ♥

Anonymous asked:

hey lexy im going to make a tumblr account to specifically be on PK's side-- I know this is cowardly but I do want this account to be anon for the time being-- I do eventually want to come out publically, but since I'm too scared AND pissed off I want to make an anon blog now-- can people figure out my main account if I reblog from them? or just by looking at my page?

in theory there’s supposed to be no obvious public link between a side blog and the main blog

there are always tells, which i will not list because i don’t want to give anyone ideas, but i don’t think the current batch of anons are dedicated or clever enough to bother hunting down the owner of a side blog.  there’s not even any clear indication that a particular blog is a side blog, except that it can never like anything, because likes are always attributed to your main

-96969696- asked:

We've reached a point at which pk coming out about suicidal thoughts is being held against her. It's getting... nauseating. Perhaps you should make a cut here since it's obvious this can't be reasoned with and pumping more reblogs into it may only serve to delay its well deserved end? I don't know. Either way, fuck this, hope you'll be better soon.

“haha let’s trivialize someone for the suicidal thoughts that we gave them. that’ll show them just how much i care about social justice and fighting ableism”

i’m kinda running out of steam and there’s not much more to be said i suppose

somehow i don’t think my reblogs are gonna keep this going when it otherwise wouldn’t, though.  accusations of abuse are juicy high school gossip.  accusations that oh oops everyone is actually a huge jackass for spreading that…  not so much.

at least i’ve eased yesterday’s anxiety with all this furious typing

the truth is on our side, anyway.  people will believe whatever they want to believe, and the world will continue to turn

Anonymous asked:

How can Pengo straight up ignore what he's started? He's just doing his thing as if he didn't unleash a shit storm that had potential to ruin people's lives. I can't comprehend it. I'm an objective viewer and I've read all the things, I love PK and how strong she's been and you've been awesomely supportive. I don't dislike Pengo either, I'm just majorly confused by his behavior in this entire thing.

well i mean it took him 14 months to decide to respond to mel’s rant, which i think he said he didn’t directly read anyway, and then another month to actually write his response

i don’t think he handles confrontation well

i am kinda done being nice and polite about this

y'all are merrily spreading a vicious accusation and even piling your own new crap on top of it, and an increasing number of people are freely admitting they didn’t even read anything about the original situation!

you are creating an environment where it is impossible to clear your name after an abuse allegation, even if you have a hard counter to all of it. no one will read your response. no one will even read the complaint! and claiming innocence is just the sort of thing a guilty person would do.

that is wildly irresponsible and irrational. that is cruel. that is evil.

and i will not abide it.

PS: i hope you realize, the harder you push for this brave new world where the first person to yell “abuse” controls the truth, the easier it’ll be for one of your exes to do this to you. i sure hope all of your breakups were amicable.

batbluebirdworld asked:

Seeing you mention your opinion on the whole pk drama, what's your opinion on lexyeevee's rebuttal of pengo's callout?

ponett answered:

i don’t care about the rebuttals. i also didn’t read most of the original callout post. because of this, i tried to write it off as “drama i didn’t want to get involved with” until recently. but then i saw this post that cleared a lot of things up for me. the final nail in the coffin, though, was when i took a closer look at the things they said recently. in their incredibly long comic about them allegedly NOT being an abuser, pk proved that they are, in fact, abusive. they displayed classic abuse tactics i’ve seen a million times such as

belittling the people who accuse them of abuse:

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gaslighting:

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and, my personal favorite, saying they almost committed suicide to get people to stop criticizing them:

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that should be a HUGE RED FLAG, but if that isn’t enough for you, the biggest red flag of all is this:

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like, oh, how convenient! pk was only accused of EMOTIONAL abuse, so that means that, according to pk’s rules, telling everyone about it was inherently evil regardless of whether or not the callout was true!! everybody who’s a victim of emotional abuse should just work things out privately!!!! they’re also using this to shift the responsibility onto their ex (another abuse tactic) for not trying harder to “resolve things.” because abusers are SO easy to reason with

these are all the typical examples of abuser behaviors. there’s nothing new about the way they act, the only difference is that they’re a popular artist

so to summarize this post

you freely admit you don’t care what either the accused or the victim have to say for themselves, but you’re gonna form and broadcast your baseless opinion anyway

you criticize someone’s depiction of a post that you just said you didn’t read, based entirely on the assumption that the post depicts abuse, which you can’t know if you didn’t read it

you think it’s gaslighting when someone has hard evidence that their version of events is correct — meanwhile you and many others are telling pk over and over that she is abusive when she is not but that’s totally different, for some reason

you think it’s somehow unreasonable for someone to feel suicidal when their friends and thousands of strangers turn on them over false accusations, and call it a huge red flag that someone would admit to contemplating suicide

and you think she is shifting responsibility onto pengo for trying hard to resolve things, even though they had a very long conversation at the end of their relationship during which things seemingly were resolved, and then pengo apparently blocked her forever, which you would know if you had read the rebuttal and weren’t talking entirely out your ass

you are trivializing suicide, helping repeat a lie, pushing all the blame onto one person and basing your harsh opinion of them on shit you completely made up

wow, this sounds familiar. it actually fits your own definition of “typical examples of abuser behaviors”! i suppose you’ll now ignore me or handwave me away, because as you know, abusers are really difficult to reason with.